Friday, December 25, 2009

2010 Boy Butter Ad features new TSA Approved sizes "Baby Butters"

Boy Butter creator Eyal Feldman is excited for 2010. Try the new 3 oz Boy Butter tubs, "baby butters" as I like to call em. They are totally safe for carry on air travel, no more throwing Boy Butter away at security. We also have new larger 16 oz tubs for the first time in the H20 Boy Butter and H20 Boy Butter Extreme Desensitizing Lurbicants, both 100% latex safe and vaginally safe.

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Fox News: White House Christmas Tree Ornament Controversy brings drag queen Hedda Lettuce into spotlight

Hedda Lettuce on White House Christmas ornament - December 23, 2009
Hedda Lettuce on White House Christmas ornament - December 23, 2009
Photo / AP Photo
December 24, 2009 – Hedda Lettuce is a well known, semi-famous New York drag queen sponsored by Boy Butter Lubricants has put on a show for years with never so much as a controversy. However, within mere hours, one of the trends for December 23 became Hedda Lettuce.

Why? Apparently, Hedda Lettuce is the subject of an ornament hanging on the official White House Christmas tree.

The White House solicited Christmas ornaments from the public and non-profits to put on White House trees. This is done well in advance of hanging the decorations. So, once the ornaments comes in, they are sifted through at which time a designing supervisor -- in this case Simon Doonan, creative director for New York's upscale Barney’s department store -- comes in to put the ornaments where they need to go in order to make the tree look gorgeous.

That said, it's interesting how Hedda Lettuce got the ornament into the White House in the first place. Describing the situation as harmless, the long time entertainer signed a Christmas tree decoration, then put it in a box of ornaments to go to our nation's capital. This was done when Lettuce volunteered at New York's SAGE center.

According to the enthusastic entertainer's blog, finding out the bulb was on the tree was a big shocker.

“I was doing some volunteer work with SAGE at the Gay Community Center in NYC. SAGE is an organization that helps elderly gay people by providing them social activities and a community space to hang out with their peers," says Hedda Lettuce. 

"So a few of us gathered around pots of glue, brushes and torn paper to decoupage the afternoon away. After I was done with my ornament, I discreetly signed it-xoxo Hedda Lettuce, let it dry, and then placed it in a box to be shipped to Washington. I completely forgot about it until yesterday when I received an excited phone call from Bertis, one of the executives at SAGE,” writes Hedda Lettuce.

Hopefully this trinket to the President for the First Family tree will mean a huge career boost for Hedda Lettuce. Maybe the performer will even be given a trip to Hollywood for a Christmas special as a result. You never know. We will just have to wait to see, won't we?

Friday, December 18, 2009

Listen Up Gay Jews! The 2009 Jewbilee Party this Xmas Eve 2009

We have waited all year and next week NYC's  Hottest Gay Jewish Party of the year, over a 1000 hot gay Jews and I'm sure many of their gentile admirers, aka "Bagel Chasers" will be partying it up Kosher style. There will be prizes and give aways including the infamous Boy Butter Personal Lubricants and more fun stuff.

Christmas Eve Jewbilee 2009
Hudson Terrace
Rooftop Garden Lounge
621 W 46th St (Between 11th & 12th Ave)
$7 admission all night long

2-for-1 Cocktails & Beers from 9pm – 11pm

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

The Dildo Whisperer Romaine Patterson reviews Boy Butter

Please check out Romaine Patterson's Dildo Whisperer Blog entry about Boy Butter by clicking here, or read it below.

Long before I was a host on Sirius/XM radio I was a budding dildo whisperer. All of my teenage nephews knew that when they were ready to become sexually active to call me and I would send them a discreet "care package" filled with everything they would need to practice safe sex. They got lube packets, safe sex pamphlets and of course tons of condoms. I was the cool aunt that never told their parents but always made sure that they were playing safe. 

Years after I sent my nephew Raif his first care package we were talking on the phone. No longer an awkward teenager but rather a young man in his early twenties he asked me if I had any good porn laying around the office. Of course I did because I always have an abundance of straight porn as I have little need for it. I grabbed a couple of good DVD's and threw them in a box. Then I spotted some containers of 
Boy Butter and thought he could probably use a little lube too. So into the box it went. I shipped the box off and didn't think anything of it. That is until the next time he and I spoke on the phone. During the course of the conversation he raved about the lube that I had sent him. At the time I couldn't even remember what brand I had sent him so I made him explain the package to me. He laughed a little and said, "well, it looks like a tub of butter". Ahh yes, Boy Butter. He went on to say that his jacking off had never felt better. Sure it was a little TMI but to be honest I was interested in his honest opinion on this brand of lube and he was more than willing rave on about it. He then asked if I would send him more because even though I had sent him a pretty good sized tub he had already used it all up. In less than 3 weeks I might add! That was all I needed to know that Eyal Feldman (the inventor of Boy Butter) had come up with a winner!

Now let's talk about 
Boy Butter!

Boy Butter comes in several formulas and containers but they all share a few traits. First, Boy Butter lubes are all a cream style lube. I like the creamy lubes because they really work well for men while they are jacking off but the creamy style also pairs nicely with anal sex. Secondly, the entire line of Boy Butter lubes washes off with a little soap and water. Meaning you don't have to worry about stains on your sheets or a difficult clean up. Anyone who had ever had a silicone lube stain on their bed sheets can tell you how this is a beneficial trait.

In terms of containers nearly all of the Boy Butter products come in one of three styles of containers. I suggest picking the container that best fits your needs.
1. A Tub (these vary in size from 4 oz & 8 oz)
2. The Squeeze Bottle (9 oz)
5. The EZ-Pump (5 oz)
The Boy Butter line up all started with Boy Butter.

Boy Butter comes with the yellow label and was the first lube in the Boy Butter Line up. Boy Butter is an oil-based lubricant that is made up from two very gentle ingredients: coconut oil and organic silicone. These ingredients are then homogenized just like real butter and the end result is a long lasting creamy lubricant. This lube is hypoallergenic and is safe on all toys. However, there is one VERY IMPORTANT thing I must tell you about. Because this lube is oil-based it is not compatible with any latex safer sex supplies like latex condoms. So this lube is best used for solo play or sex with a trusted partner. Currently, this is the only version of Boy Butter that we are carrying in my online store and it can be found in both of the containers pictured above under the "Bath, Body and Wellness" section of the store.

Active Ingredients: Coconut Oil and organic Silicone
Applications: Masturbation, Sex Toy Play, Anal Sex
Warnings: Do not use with Latex Condoms, NOT latex compatible.
Accessories: Your hand, Male Strokers/ Masturbation Sleeves, Sex toys
Rating: *** 3 out of 5 stars

You'll Never Know It Isn't Boy Butter (H2O Version)

Eyal Feldman understands the importance of safer sex practices which is why he came out with a water based version of his Boy Butter lube. This one appropriately called, "You'll Never Know It Isn't Boy Butter" is very similar to the original formula with a few small ingredient changes. This lube starts out as a water based gel lube that has Vitamin E and Shea butter added to it. The end result is a creamy lube that is safe for men or women and is latex compatible. This lube goes on clear and will last longer then most water based lubes. This means less time re-applying and more time enjoying yourself. It carries the same non-staining and easy clean up attributes as the Original Boy Butter but with the added bonus of safe sex compatibility.

Active Ingredients: Water based Gel lubricant, Vitamin E and Shea Butter
Applications: Use During Sex, Masturbation, Sex Toy Play, Anal Sex, Safe for Men or Women
Accessories: Your hand, Male Strokers/ Masturbation Sleeves, Sex toys
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 stars

There are additional products from Boy Butter but I will save those for another day. It is worth taking a few minutes to head over to the Boy Butter site though and checking the entire line out.

If you have a sex or sex toy question that you want answered, email the Dildo Whisperer at Or if you have a specific toy from my online store that you want the Dildo Whisperer to review let me know.

Monday, December 14, 2009

Postcard of Boy Butter owner on sale on Ebay

Finally I get some recognition round here!
Im on sale for $4.99, Awesome. - 
Eyal Feldman, owner and posterboy for Boy Butter Lubes.

See Ebay sale page, seriously it's for real.

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Happy Hanukkah from Orrin Hatch

Jews rejoyce. Orrin Hatch, the Republican Mormon senator from Utah, has written a Hanukkah song: "Eight Days of Hanukkah."
As Hatch told the New York Times, "Anything I can do for the Jewish people, I will do. Mormons believe the Jewish people are the chosen people, just like the Old Testament."
Eight Days of Hanukkah from Tablet Magazine on Vimeo.

Monday, December 7, 2009

Toys for Tots

New York city's big gay social event Toys for Tots, which is a holiday party raising funds for SAGE and toy donations for thousands of needy children. Almost 3000 of the Gay New York Elite rubbing elbows and looking super hot. Of course Boy Butter showed up and was photographed below with hubby B-Mac and The Markowitz, aka Joey Markowitz, who was visiting all the way from Greenwich CT.

: )

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Israeli singer-songwriter nominated for Grammy

Israeli singer and songwriter Oren Lavie has been nominated for a Grammy award for best music video for his song Her Morning Elegance.
The unique music video, which debuted a year ago, has drawn enthusiastic reactions worldwide. It was made up of a sequence of photographs taken by Eyal Landesman and directed by Lavie, along with Yuval and Merav Natan.
The other nominees in the prestigious Best Music Video category are big names in the music world such as Coldplay, Depeche Mode and the Black Eyed Peas.
Lavie is currently working on his second English album and also began recording songs in Hebrew, following what he calls his "great love to Tel Aviv."

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Boy Butter CEO's steamy photo, just in time for Holidays

"One should always find time for vigorous exercise." - Eyal Feldman, Boy Butter CEO and America's Next Top Lubricant Model